Domestic Abuse

If you are a student affected by domestic abuse, you are not alone.

Domestic abuse can be physical, emotional, sexual or financial, and also includes forced marriage.

Don't suffer alone. If you need to speak to someone confidentially you can come to speak to one of our trained advisors, on the ground floor of the students' union.  Ask at reception if you're having difficulty finding them.  You can also call the welfare officer on 07787 422 573, or the women's officer on 07787 422 509.  It doesn't mean immediately making a decision; it just means someone else knowing, believing, and taking you seriously and you being able to talk about your situation in a safe environment.

 

How do I know I'm in an abusive relationship?

  • Do you ever feel intimidated?
  • Do you ever perform sexual acts you'd rather not?
  • Have you ever been spat at or hit?
  • Have you ever been restricted from leaving your flat?
  • Have you ever had your money taken away from you?
  • Is anyone forcing you into a marriage you aren't okay with?

If the answer to any of these questions is yes, then you are in an abusive relationship.

Though it can seem difficult, there are ways out.

 

Helplines

Manchester Domestic Abuse helpline: 0161 636 7525
Manchester Police Domestic Violence Unit: 0161 856 5788
National forced marriage unit: 0207 008 0151

It's really important that at least one other person, who you can trust knows about your situation, so that if you're in trouble, someone will know about it.

That person could be the Women's Officer, the Welfare Officer, or a close friend who you trust would know how to deal with the situation.

If you are supporting a friend in an abusive relationship, make sure you keep in regular contact with them as isolation often occurs.

For more information check here:

Women's Domestic Abuse Helpline

Men can also be affected by domestic abuse, and are also welcome to come and see myself or the Welfare Officer. You will be welcomed and treated confidentially.
You may also want to call MALE, a helpline for male victims of domestic abuse: 0845 064 6800

Respect: 0845 122 8609 is a helpline for perpetrators of domestic abuse.